I HEARD THIS QUESTION ASKED ON A RADIO STATION THIS MORNING AND THOUGHT IS WAS WORTH ANSWERING. . .
The question was:
why is it that an ugly thin girl is more acceptable in dating society than a beautiful fat girl?
My answer:
I think it does not matter for either the thin ugly or the beautiful fat girl. Society has set a standard of beauty that usually does not include either of these groups. Only when we have become a society of blind people will we begin to realize the true assets that make a person beautiful.
How you define beauty is how you will portray and look for beauty.
What is your definition of beauty? Does it exclude certain groups of people? Old, or short, fat or skinny? Is a cloudy sky any less beautiful than a sun filled cloudless one? Is rain falling on the ground any less lovely than rain that falls on a garden of vivid flowers?
I knew a tall lanky, stretched to the sky guy in high school who had no discernible beauty features about him. His hair was too kinky, his eyes too big, his nose too wide. He had huge hands that gripped yours with gentle softness and a smile that filled your heart with tingled warmness. He had a charisma unchallenged by the handsomest, football playing guys in school. And to this day he is one of the most attractive man I have ever met in my life. His beauty came from the way he treated people, with deep respect and unhindered comfort.
If your definition depends on the deepness of skin alone- you are lost, blind and I must say. .foolish.
But if your definition extends outward beyond what sight tells you, and what society tries to convince you as being beautiful, than you have a world of beautiful things, people and places to discover within yourself and within this world.
Find and form your own definitions of what beautiful means, the world just plain don’t know! Because they have yet to meet all of us!
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